Thursday, December 17, 2015

Recovery



Julaine Hoefakker Groeneveld
Well, step one in this journey can be checked off. Surgery went well yesterday, but took a little longer than expected. The good news- MRI and visual showed one side appeared to be completely clear.
Not so good news- exploration of the lymphnodes in the right side showed a 1cm tumor in one node and another that appeared to the naked eye, to look dirty. 10-15 lymphnodes were removed as a precautionary measure and we wait for pathology reports on all those. So even though we are disappointed with the lymphnodes thing and the crazy chemo train that puts us on, it's still soooo much more positive than it could have been
As cliche as this sounds, we truly do feel as though we are nestled in a cloud of prayer through this whole thing. Even the ride to the hospital yesterday and waiting for surgery, we were experiencing a peace and calm that can only be explained by the sheer number of people praying for those exact things. The support has been overwhelming! From the care packages and sweet encouraging notes sent to ashley in pullman as she attempts to complete finals this week while wanting to be home instead, our freezer being stocked full of meals, our kids being completely cared for and loved by 'borrowed family'smile emoticon the random lady who approached Bob in the waiting room and asked if she could pray with him, his amazing friends who showed up and sat for hours with him, making sure he didn't destroy anything while I was in surgery, the thoughtful gifts, cards, texts, it is a pretty humbling experience and I really can't explain how much of a difference it makes. It's kind of impossible to sit and have any sort of pity party when you have such great family and friends 100% behind you:)
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Kasey Karthauser-Blair Thank you for the update. Will continue to pray for you.
Debbie Wiersma Maddox Glad to hear from you Julaine! Like you said your family is in a cloud of prayers!!
Wendy Maddox Meirndorf Wow, you just blessed me with your words. 
Lolli Harris Essary I agree Wendy! She could maybe write a book while she recovers. Always so good with her words...genuine, heartfelt and sincere!!
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Lolli Harris Essary Love you Julaine!! I can't wait to see the results of all your sleeping photo shoots when Bob gets bored! smile emoticon
Ashley Schinkelshoek Calhoun Glad surgery went well! Hope you get to go home and rest in your own bed soon!
Dawn Steinmetz You are such an inspiration Julaine Hoefakker Groeneveld. You are a warrior and will get through this. We are praying for you and know you, Bob and your kids are being thought of.
Kim Dunkin Julaine, so good to hear from you. Praising the Lord for all He is doing in and through you  praying for you and your family.
Amy Courtney Thank you for the update. We are continuing to pray for you and your family!  Love you!
Vicki Wentz Continued prayers for you and your precious family . You are loved ! 
Tonya Marquez You are amazing Julaine!! Thank you for the update. 
Traci Anne Hicks First post that my sleepy eyes see this morning and I'm so glad it's you! 
Sandra Beierle Desserault God is so good! Thank you for the update! Continued daily Prayers for you and your very special family! Sending you much love and hugs too!
Kristal Cole We will continue to keep that cloud of prayer surrounding you! Love to you all!! 
Fransisca 'Veldhuis' Vander Meulen Continued prayers. Thanks for the update
Marilyn Lommers VanOostrum We will keep praying for you all
Wendy Larson Rodriguez Continuous prayers for you and your family.
Linda Suhadolnik We love you and your family! Continuing to pray for good news.
Darci Monson Sending strength and prayers to you and your family!
Brandi Thornbrugh Continuing prayer for you and your family!
Michelle Hall See...and I logged on to give YOU encouragement...and you gave it to me instead. I see what you did, there. 
Kristen Mason Luther I will continue to pray for you and your family to heal and have comfort in this time of great unknown. You will overcome this and you will come out a winner. God bless you dear.
Your strength is amazing and thank you for your update.
Rachel Clare Phillips We are praying for you and we want to help in ANY way we can!!
Julie Trull Schilperoort Love you and your family to pieces!
Kim Hull Kilian We will keep the prayers coming!!!
Adrienne Taylor Rainer We have been praying and will keep praying for you! Hugs to you and your entire family.
Cheryl Hoefakker Korthuis Haha, Bob destroy things while sitting patiently?? Never!
Cassie Schilperoort We love you! smile emoticon
Kortnie Castillo Sending love and more prayers and am so happy to hear how God has carried you through this first big step!!!
Ella Hoogendoorn Praying for you and your family.
Te'a Trump You got this! Lots of prayers! 
Kelli Huffaker Christoferson Praise Jesus!! Continuing to pray for you and your family. smile emoticon
Ashley McPherson We will continue to pray for you and your amazing family Julaine!!! We love you!!
Rachael Hoefakker  we love you so much and will continue to pray!
Katrina Maljaars Sorry to hear the disappointing news, but praying that you recover from surgery quickly. Thinking of you and your family through this ordeal.
Rosie Haak Go Team Groeneveld!
Cindy Rattray You are one awesome lady with an incredible family!!! Congrats on finishing stage one of this ordeal. Now on to stage two with lots of love, support and most importantly - prayers!!! Continued love and support 
Mary Groeneveld May God's arms enfold you,His peace surround you,His loving hands heal you. Love you all lots
Sarah Jane Neels Love you so much! 
Laura Eisenga What a beautiful blessing, and thank you for sharing that testimony with us this morning! God is good all the time!
Evelyn Hoefakker It's so good to hear your positive and heart warming reportJulaine! With the strength of The Lord you will come through this! You are in our prayers.
Marlene Kooyman Big hugs from us and we'll keep praying for you!
RodandChris Hoefakker God is good! Wish we could be there. Your in our thoughts and prayers, love you!
Kathy Weber Good news...Praying for you Julaine Hoefakker Groeneveld Stay strong and positive smile emoticon
Karen Don Praying for you!!
Lori Suhadolnik Riggs 100% behind you Julaine! Prayers coming your way! You've got this girlfriend!! Miss ya! 🙇
Connie Channel Good news is welcome and the not so good we have the almighty healer on your side! This whole community is praying and holding you in their hearts! We love you and your amazing family Julaine! God Bless and keep you all! Went through ovarian cancer with my sister! I know exactly what you mean we too were carried on the wings of angels as we went thru this!
Best Nunez Lornna Good news! Lots of prayers for you.
Sharon Schinkelshoek Love and prayers to you and your family
Tonya Smith Steinbock Love you Groeneveld Family! Praying praying praying 
Sandy Cueto Love sent your way sweet J...
Roz Rodgers You are an incredible lady and we have all been blessed by you and your family. we will keep praying for you
Marcie Coffman Love you all!!! Hugs and prayers. Just say the word and I'll bring you IV fluids smile emoticon
Carrie Meyers Continue to lift you up in prayer
Pat Westing Halma Keeping you and your family in my prayers...........
Gretchen Chronis Thanks for sharing.  We love you JuJu!!!!! Praying for you daily. 
Tiffanie Hester Praying



Surgery went relatively good, took quite a bit longer than expected but at least they feel like they got it all! There actually ended up being two tumors in the right breast. The one was 3.5 cm big and the other was right around 1cm. Two of the lymphnodes in the right side also had cancer in them, the one node was quite large and the cancer had actually 'burst' out of the node cover and spread to the surrounding tissue. Unfortunately that puts us on a pretty aggressive route of chemo treatments and radiation. But for right now, we recover from the mastectomy and then we tackle the next step!

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