Thursday, December 3, 2015

Life rolls on....

After our 5 days in Banff Alberta we headed down to the Fraser Valley for Thanksgiving. Initially, one of the toughest parts about being told I had cancer was the telling people. I hated that part!! Because we were up in the mountains, cell phone reception was spotty at best and most of our friends we told via text.
It was so nice to be able to see all my siblings that Thanksgiving!
News like this tends to spread quickly and word started to travel. However, it became a little stressful not knowing who knew and who didn't, having some people think it must be a big secret so they didn't dare to mention it, having other people be upset because they didn't know and just found out from somebody else, so finally we decided the best way to deal with it would be to just rely on facebook and put it all out there. I agonized over this post for a long time before I finally just quickly hit 'submit' and then shut my phone off and went to bed. For some reason, I found it really difficult to just put it out there. I didn't want people to think it was some big secret but at the same time I didn't want people to think I was looking for sympathy and attention either!

Julaine Hoefakker Groeneveld

Well, turns out this holiday season is not going to go quite as we had planned. But then again, life seldom does:) A plan of attack has been laid out, and on the 14th we will launch a full scale assault against breast cancer. Out of all the weapons in our arsenal we know that prayer is the strongest one and we are so glad to have an unlimited supply of those! Kicking cancers butt was not really on my bucket list of things to do before hitting 40 but now that it's here that's exactly what we'll do! You never think it'll happen to you and when it does its pretty surreal. We are very grateful for the incredible support of our family and great friends that will help us through this unexpected journey. I'm afraid that, despite my great intentions, once again my Christmas cards will not make it out but please know we are wishing the most wonderful of Christmas's to all of you! Take time to remember what's really important this Holiday season and don't sweat the small stuff! oh ya...and ladies....get your mammograms!!:)
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Whitney Appelgate Stupid Cancer! I am so sorry! Thinking and praying for you, you got this!
Kathleen Van Middendorp You're in our prayers. Like you said it is the strongest.
Eric Dirks So So sorry Julaine. Prayers to you and your family from Kat, Kim, and I. I know you'll win this fight!
Karen Walker You've been heavy on my mind. Praying for healing. Let me know if you need anything at all...rides for kids or meals. I'll be dropping food off, whether you need it or not. : )
Wendy Larson Rodriguez Julaine Hoefakker Groeneveld, you are in my prayers. If there is anything you need, don't hesitate to ask. I can give Brandi rides for bball. Praying, praying, praying for you all.
Katy Isley Praying for you!
Kristin Elizabeth Walker You're in my thoughts & prayers Julaine. You are a warrior surrounded by so much love.
Connie Channel Praying for your treatment and complete recovery! I think the world of you and your Family I know they will be there for you and our community will stand by you as well! God Bless you as you travel down this uncertain Path! We will all be praying for you to soon be Cancer Free! 😇
Sara Den Hoed Wisner Praying for you Julaine!! Go kick cancers butt!!
Kortnie Castillo You are so loved and will be covered in prayers! You've got this!!!!
Barbie Paul Weinmann You will be in my prayers as well!! {hugs}
Evelyn van Egdom Praying for you heart emoticon
Jill Scott Julaine I am SO sorry to hear this....but please know you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Please don't hesitate to ask if you need ANYTHING at all!! You got this!!! Big HUGS to you!
Cindy Little Praying! Remember in Exodus 17:11 - as long as Moses held his hands up the Israelites prevailed in battle. When he grew weary Aaron and Hur were there to help him. You will be surrounded by many who love you and our God is faithful. With Him...you got this.
Te'a Trump Prayers for you! 
Amy Courtney Praying for you to kick cancer in the butt!!! Love you Julaine!
Jon Cox Just wanted to say sorry.. you will beat this and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We r all here for you if u need anything at all.
Evangelina Galvan Shreeve Prayers for healing 
Ryan Calhoun If you need anything from us please don't hesitate to call us! Go kick cancers ass!
Michelle Hall Loving you so much
Teresa Hagarty Early Wow... what a great way to take on this monumental challenge. You inspire us all... love you and we are here with you every step of the way !! Hugs:)
Jessica Barker Clapp Thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Angela Hester Knight I'm Sorry. You can beat this. If you need anything, just ask. We're praying for you.
Traci Anne Hicks Prayers and a community FULL of love and support. We are right down the road if you need anything. 
Linda B. Werkhoven We will pray along with you!
Laura Eisenga Praying for God's healing, strength and comfort for you and your family. heart emoticon
Dawn Goudzwaard  prayers daily! Sure wish we lived closer 
Brandi Thornbrugh we will be praying for you and your family. Lean on us, and our community. We've got your back!
Jack Maljaars You are one of our favorites Julaine!!! We love your personality ( and Bob's of course) . Your kids are awesome ( Tyler another favorite... Sorry girls). We pray for you and your family. You are so strong...you are a example to many and humble us. Thankyou!!
Lisa Adolphson You, Bob and the kids will be in our thoughts and prayers!
Kathy Weber You were on my mind all day! Praying for you and your family. I know you will kick cancers butt. We are here for you...heart emoticon
Denine Trump A wonderful plan you have indeed! Prayers continually from our family. We will be beside you through the entire journey just as your family was beside mine. Love always. See you soon. 
Kim DeBruin So sorry to hear Julianne! We will keep you in our prayers.
Kim Hanson Dirks Prayers for the journey, you, and your family . We will ask God for healing, strength, courage and support beyond what we can imagine. You are surrounded by a community that is full of support that you can always lean on, use that support system! God bless you sweet lady! Prayers.
Miranda Stokes Praying for you and your family. Lots of love and hugs sent your way. 
Dee Voetberg Van Beek Thinking of you and praying for peace and healing.
Kim Dunkin Juliane, so sorry to hear this news, I will be praying for you and your family 
Jody Terpstra I will be praying for you! May God bless you with special Christmas blessings.
Tonya Marquez Julaine, thinking if you and your family. You have this!!!! Hugs!! 
Carisa Chamberlain Stallcop Hugs and prayers for you and your family
Ashley Schinkelshoek Calhoun Praying for you and your family! Prayers for easy and simple treatment! We will be thinking of all of you!
Donald Winston Olmstead Julaine I already know you will beat this and come through an even stronger person! I just know it! We will be praying for you!
Lynn Lyon Blair This cancer won't know what hit it after your arsenal of prayer warriors is done with it!!!! We are behind you 110%, lifting you in prayer, carrying your burden when you are weak, celebrating your milestones and most of all giving praise to our Father for his everlasting love and promise of hope We love you Julaine!! 
Marilyn Beekman Van Oort Wow!. So sorry to hear this! Definitely adding you to the prayer list!🏻🏻🏻
Peggy Early Sending thoughts and prayers to such a beautiful woman!
Cheryl Hoefakker Korthuis Praying for you so often! XOXOX
Trijntsje Tilstra-Mensonides Praying for complete healing Julaine ! And strength for you and your family. May the Lord Bless you this Christmas season
Lori Meehan Gamache Praying for you and your family!
Christine Hurn Underwood I am SO SO sorry!! PLEASE know you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers ALWAYS!! Please don't ever hesitate to ask if you need ANYTHING at all!!
Thoughts and prayers are with you always!!XOXO  

Rachel Clare Phillips We are praying and we are here for you all every step of the way
Trish Anker Prayers for you as you begin this fight!! Wishing you strength and healing....xo
Cassie Schilperoort You're going to WIN! Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family! smile emoticon
Kristen Mason Luther I will pray for a complete recovery hugs sweet lady.
Kristal Cole My family loves you, Julaine! We are praying for you, Bob, and your wonderful kiddos. 
Holly Alefteras I am so sorry to hear this. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. You can beat this!
Ashley McPherson So sorry to hear about this. If anyone can kick cancers butt, its you Julaine! We will be praying for you and your wonderful family!
Dawn Steinmetz Holy crap! My heart just dropped. Julaine, you are the strongest bravest person I know. You will getting through this and be ok. Life sure has a way of throwing wrenches in to the mix. I pray for you, and really if you need anything, or your kids, please don't hesitate to let us know.
Jodi Hofstad Your whole family will be in our prayers.
Alison Trevino Kleinow You and your dear family hold a huge spot in our hearts, and I've been praying and praying for you all. I know you are determined and strong, and I believe God will help your family get through this challenge! I love you!
Renee Wanda-Taylor Bender Will be praying for you and your family!
Leah Vantilburg- Vanderbrink Prayers from your Iowa family
Kim Hull Kilian With God by your side, you and your amazing family will get through this!! If I can help with anything please let me know! We will be praying for all of you!!!
Amy Armstrong Beightol Oh My Sweet Julaine! You and your family are
in our prayers! Please let me know if there is ANYTHING we can do to to help you. Love you friend! 

Briann Den Hoed I want to drive over RIGHT now and hug you!! You inspire me and so many....sooooo glad He is on our side....We won't stop praying!! 🏻
Sarah Jane Neels Big thanks in advance to all of my Aunts many loving friends in Washington for looking out for her and the family from their family up north unsure emoticonwe all wish we were closer everyday frown emoticon heart emoticon
Lolli Harris Essary She is so loved here Sarah!!!
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Sarah Jane Neels Love you Auntie Julie  I'll be over asap 
Carol VanSlageren You can do it! My mom just spent last year fighting breast cancer & she also had a stroke. But with determination, a great attitude, friends, family & God, she prevailed. I'll be praying for strength for you & Bob & the family.
Lia Kattenberg We will be praying as a family!! 🏼
Steve Thonney Julaine Hoefakker Groeneveld we will pray everyday for our gracious God to provide all that you need.
Lolli Harris Essary "Someone who wants to brighten your day" will not be going away. Our family loves you like family and will drop everything to help make these next few months go as smooth as possible for you! You'll have a few (thousand) people praying for you. Love to you all!!
Fransisca 'Veldhuis' Vander Meulen Prayers to you and your family as you fight this battle and win
Kathy Thonney Julaine, my heart goes out to you. We will be praying for God's mercy and healing.
Dana Clark Julaine - you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!!
Tracy M. Ziegler Sending prayers & hugs! Love you!
Linda Suhadolnik Praying for a complete recovery! We love you lots:)
Katrina Maljaars Praying you are given the strength and courage you need for this battle! As I just turned 40 I have been pushing off making a doctors appointment, but you have given me the push I need to take care of myself! Praying for you and please keep us updated on your journey.
Sandra Beierle Desserault Sending YOU and your family daily prayers!!
Mini Smith White I so sorry to hear about this but you will kick it's butt and sending you lots of prayers!!
Vicki Wentz My heart just sank. But prayers just went up. You are an amazing mom, who we all admire . Daily prayers for you starting now.
Alvina Noordmans My dear friend and cousin, you will be in my prayers! Truly God does hear us, esp when we collectively storm the gates of Heaven and lay our needs at the foot of the cross and trust that God is already beginning the healing process in you body! Hugs from Mn!
Adrienne Taylor Rainer Lots of prayers are coming your way. Stay strong.
Michele Smith Many many thoughts and prayers to you Julaine! You are strong and you will kick cancer's butt.
Shon Small Praying for a speedy butt kicking! 
Cami Bohlmann Fitzgerald Prayers to you sweet Julaine!!!💕
Cedar Johnson I'm sure it's been said but we're kicking butt with you in our thoughts and prayers! Strong, positive attitude and support from family and friends is 1/2 the battle and you have that 100 fold! You got this!
Rachael Hoefakker Love you and always praying for you 
Sharon Schinkelshoek You are in our thoughts and prayers
Carly Womach Faulk So Sorry julaine. I will be praying for you
Tonya Smith Steinbock We love you and will be here to help with anything you guys may need!!!! Hugs and prayers Julaine! You got this
Sue Den Hoed Fluit Prayers always. Strength in numbers and it looks like you have those!!
Joleen Bisschop You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you strength.
Mandy Minick Whatever you need let us know. We know you will beat this!
Wendy Hamstra Will be praying for you julaine!! So sorry to hear.
Mina Oostlander Praying for all of you! Love you lots! 
Sandy Cueto Sweet, sweet Julaine. My heart hurts. You're amazing and Bud & I know you will be strong. We love you.
Nicole Denny We are and will continue to be praying for you all. So happy to help in any way we can.
Carrie Meyers Holding you up in prayer
Deanna Still Carpenter God heal, YOUR WAY, YOUR TIME! We will trust You Father with Julaine Hoefakker Groeneveld and her family. We chose to pray for strength and guidance from YOU for the whole family. Thank you for your Spirit that will walk beside them through this journey. I feel that same shock and surreal feeling Julaine mentioned and I just pray for a peace that surpasses all understanding! In the Power of Jesus, Amen.
Kelli Huffaker Christoferson Keeping you in my prayers! You are such a strong, amazing woman! You will kick cancers butt, I have no doubt!!

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Kevin Slingerland Praying for you, Julaine.
Marilyn Lommers VanOostrum Praying for you Julaine and your family. Praying for wisdom for all those caring for you and making decisions with you. Love you Julaine. We are with you 
Mary Groeneveld Love you Lots, Lots of prayers coming from here
Deanna Niemeyer Flores My family is in your corner- kick some cancer butt!!
Best Nunez Lornna Lots of prayers for you!
Ruth Maljaars-Neels Oh Julaine! I'm so, so sorry to hear this news!! Praying that you will feel the Lord's nearness through this trial. Hugs to you!
Heidi Channel Moreno Praying for you Julaine!!! I have no doubt that you will kick cancer's butt!!!!! 
Lori Van Beek You have been added to our prayer list. Sending hugs!
Sue Clapp Praying for yor Julaine and your family.
Chad van den Brink Aw blessings and prayers to u and your family ☹The good news is that you have loads of love around you, and that is paramount to kicking cancer's butt!!! Stay strong and gorgeous! 🤗
Marcie Coffman You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you Julaine and are here and ready to help anyway we can!!!
Debbie Wiersma Maddox No doubt you guys can do this Julaine! You've got those awesome Dutch genes! Jesus is right here!!
Carol-Lynn Vermeer DenHoed Sending love and prayers to you and your family!
Mark Noordam Sorry to hear the news Julaine. Will be praying for you.
Leah Olivarez So sorry to hear julaine. You and your family our in my prayers. You are one of the strongest ladies I know.
Ella Fluit Sorry about your news. Our thoughts are with you all. May the Lord bless the means that will be used to combat this dreadful cancer. Wishing you strength through this hardship.
Diane Strong Wow! Thinking of you and your family.
Barb Harle So sorry to hear this news Julaine, many prayers gong out to you and your sweet family. Kick that cancers booty!!
Sonya Brobbel Sorry to hear this Julaine Will definitely be praying for God's grace and nearness during this time of trial.
Lois Sperling Lyon We love and care about you and your family, and you can be assured that you are in our prayers. It eases your friends's hearts to help, so we'll be right there with you in this fight. Love and hugs from Mimi.
Joleen Timmer Thinking and praying for you Julaine.
Trish Anker Thoughts and prayers for healing and strength! xo

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